Finally feeling better since that incredibly rude Facebook exchange the other day.
I got to work today and noticed that the email I had sent to my friend’s father had a reply in my inbox!
He told me that he was happy to hear from me (which I really needed to hear more than anyone will ever understand), and that his son had indeed gone astray in 2011 which is when they filed the report. They were notified months later that the city he was living in had found him but could not disclose the location because he was legally an adult. He then told me that Thanksgiving day of 2012, his son showed up at their house. Which I can’t say is a wonderful surprise or not since he disappeared yet again immediately after. He had asked the website to take down the report but they have not done so. To this day, I’m told he refuses to return phone calls, texts or any means of communication from them.
All I can say is that must be incredibly frustrating for that family. Please understand by no means am I trying to compare or undermine those who have had a loved one pass away, but this must be just as bad if not almost worse because they really have no closure. They don’t know if he’s dead, alive, in jail, homeless etc. But according to the source from earlier this week “he’s fine” and that’s all anyone needs to know.
It was so wonderful to hear from his father, it added that fuel that I lost just days ago to continue my search.
I also cleaned my Facebook friends list of those who mock my determination.
Moving forward